Ge\u00e7en as\u0131rda ortalama bir \u00e7ocuk, etraf\u0131nda devaml\u0131 ili\u015fki kurdu\u011fu minimum 25 yeti\u015fkinle b\u00fcy\u00fcyormu\u015f. Art\u0131k \u00f6yle de\u011fil. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn etraf\u0131m\u0131zda devaml\u0131 irtibat halinde oldu\u011fumuz b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin say\u0131s\u0131 azal\u0131yor. Ve biz hayat\u0131 televizyonlardan, filmlerden, internet sitelerinden, sosyal payla\u015f\u0131m a\u011flar\u0131ndan ve en \u00e7ok da akranlar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. B\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmek b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle ya\u015famak, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle b\u00fcy\u00fcmek demektir. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerle uzun uzun vakitler ge\u00e7irmeli, payla\u015f\u0131mlarda bulunmal\u0131, onlar\u0131 dinlemeli, g\u00f6zlemeli, onlara kulak ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl vermeliyiz. Bize d\u00fc\u015fen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc bilmek ve b\u00fcy\u00fcklere hep \u015funu demektir: B\u00fcy\u00fcks\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n
Me\u015fhur f\u0131krad\u0131r; Temel, bir kovboy filmi seyrediyormu\u015f. Dursun sormu\u015f: \u201cGe\u00e7en g\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 filmi seyrediyordun\u201d diye. Temel cevap vermi\u015f: \u201cYahu ben bu filmi ellinci kez seyrediyorum. Biraz sonra \u015fu atl\u0131 adam bir u\u00e7urumun kenar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7ecek. Her seferinde h\u0131zl\u0131 ge\u00e7ip d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor bakal\u0131m \u015fimdi ne yapacak?\u201d<\/p>\n
Hayat bir film de\u011fil, capcanl\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ek. Bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi ya\u015farken de insan\u0131n anlaml\u0131 bir hayat ya\u015fayabilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6\u011frenmesi ve bilmesi gerekiyor. \u00d6\u011frenecek ve bilecek…<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan nas\u0131l \u00f6\u011frenir ve bilir? Bazen okuyarak, bazen g\u00f6rerek, bazen ya\u015fayarak. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 \u015feyler okuyarak \u00f6\u011frenilir, baz\u0131 \u015feyler g\u00f6rerek \u00f6\u011frenilir, baz\u0131 \u015feyler ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frenilir. \u00d6\u011frenilenlerin ne kadar h\u0131zl\u0131 ve kal\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc de nereden \u00f6\u011frenildi\u011fine ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak de\u011fi\u015fir. \u0130nsan en h\u0131zl\u0131 ve kal\u0131c\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fini ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi konularda ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirir, sonra g\u00f6rerek \u00f6\u011frendiklerinde, en son okuyarak \u00f6\u011frendiklerinde.<\/p>\n
B\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmek b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle ya\u015famak, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle b\u00fcy\u00fcmek demektir. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerle uzun uzun vakitler ge\u00e7irmek, payla\u015f\u0131mlarda bulunmak, dinlemek, konu\u015fmak, g\u00f6zlemek, kulak ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl vermektir. B\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeden b\u00fcy\u00fcnmez, b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck nedir, b\u00fcy\u00fck nas\u0131l davran\u0131r bilinmez.<\/p>\n
Okuyarak \u00f6\u011frenilemeyecek tecr\u00fcbeler, kitaplarda yaz\u0131lamayan ya\u015fant\u0131lar hep b\u00fcy\u00fcklerden \u00f6\u011frenilir. Hatay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmek, yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 bilmek, zarar\u0131 anlamak i\u00e7in illa ya\u015famak \u015fart de\u011fil. B\u00fcy\u00fckleri dinleyerek de \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz. Ancak yeter ki etraf\u0131m\u0131zda b\u00fcy\u00fck olsun.<\/p>\n
Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn etraf\u0131m\u0131zda devaml\u0131 irtibat halinde oldu\u011fumuz b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin say\u0131s\u0131 azal\u0131yor, her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle ili\u015fkilerimiz y\u00fczeyselle\u015fiyor, her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z fakirle\u015fiyor. Ve biz hayat\u0131 televizyonlardan, filmlerden, internet sitelerinden, sosyal payla\u015f\u0131m a\u011flar\u0131ndan ve en \u00e7ok da akranlar\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00f6\u011frenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7en as\u0131rda ortalama bir \u00e7ocuk etraf\u0131nda devaml\u0131 ili\u015fki kurdu\u011fu minimum 25 yeti\u015fkinle b\u00fcy\u00fcyormu\u015f. Anne-baba, dede-nine, hala-teyze, amca-day\u0131, kom\u015fu amcalar-kom\u015fu teyzeler, kuzenler kuzenler\u2026<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi yeti\u015fkin olarak anne-baba var devaml\u0131, d\u00fczenli g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fclen ancak ili\u015fkinin derinli\u011fi de gitti. Payla\u015f\u0131m azald\u0131k\u00e7a azald\u0131. \u00d6nce b\u00fcy\u00fck aileden \u00e7ekirdek aileye ili\u015fkiler darald\u0131 \u015fimdi herkes kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131na \u00e7ekildi. Ak\u015fam bir araya gelip ayn\u0131 odalar\u0131, ayn\u0131 mutfa\u011f\u0131 kullanan ayn\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131y\u0131 payla\u015fan ve \u00e7o\u011funlukla ekrana bakan insanlara aile diyoruz art\u0131k. Kim o g\u00fcn ne yapm\u0131\u015f, ne g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f ne ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, ne \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f bilmiyoruz. Bilmek de istemiyoruz. Daha \u00f6nemli \u015feyler var; haberler, diziler, yar\u0131\u015fma programlar\u0131, Twitler ve Facebook mesajlar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n
B\u00fcy\u00fcklere sormad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gibi tecr\u00fcbelerine inanm\u0131yor, bilgilerine g\u00fcvenmiyor, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 da be\u011fenmiyoruz. Halbuki g\u00fcn g\u00f6rmek, g\u00fcn g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f olmak \u00f6nemli bir \u015fey. Her g\u00fcn\u00fcn ya\u015fatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fi bir \u015feyler var, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bizden daha \u00e7ok g\u00fcn g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f birinin dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bizden daha \u00e7ok ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131 ve \u00f6\u011frendikleri vard\u0131r. Bize de \u00f6\u011fretebilece\u011fi bir d\u00fcnya bilgi ve tecr\u00fcbe\u2026<\/p>\n
B\u00fcy\u00fckle ya\u015famak insan\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc ayd\u0131nlatan bir \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011fa sahip olmas\u0131 gibidir. Ne kadar fazla b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcr, ne kadar \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fckle ya\u015farsa o kadar \u00f6n\u00fc ayd\u0131nlan\u0131r. Yar\u0131n\u0131n\u0131, yar\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 daha net, daha do\u011fru g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve kaybolma, yanl\u0131\u015f yola gitme, yolda zarar g\u00f6rme ihtimali o \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde azal\u0131r.<\/p>\n
B\u00fcy\u00fckle ya\u015famak onlarla her konuda ayn\u0131 fikirde olmak, her ne derlerse kabul etmek, her olaya ayn\u0131 bakmak demek de\u011fildir. Bilakis kendi fikrimizi, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 geli\u015ftirirken onlar\u0131n da tecr\u00fcbelerini kendi in\u015fam\u0131za kat\u0131p daha zengin, daha dolu, daha \u00e7e\u015fitli bir benlik imar etmektir.<\/p>\n
Hayatta en ucuz ama en k\u0131ymetli \u015fey tecr\u00fcbedir. \u0130nsanlar bir \u00f6m\u00fcr vererek kazan\u0131rlar ve sonras\u0131nda dileyenle payla\u015f\u0131rlar. Ka\u00e7\u0131rmamak laz\u0131m bu hazineyi.<\/p>\n
B\u00fcy\u00fck ismi bo\u015fa de\u011fil. Bu y\u00fczden ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcrsek o kadar b\u00fcy\u00fcr\u00fcz. Ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6zlersek o kadar b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00f6\u011freniriz. Ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fckle ya\u015farsak o kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck ya\u015far\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Kendimize bir bakal\u0131m. \u00c7evremizde ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck var? Bu b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle ne kadar vakit ge\u00e7iriyoruz? Bu b\u00fcy\u00fcklere ne kadar soruyor, onlar\u0131 ne kadar dinliyoruz, ne kadar g\u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz? Bu b\u00fcy\u00fcklerden ne kadar istifade ediyoruz? Kitaplar k\u0131ymetlidir ama kitaplardan k\u0131ymetlidir b\u00fcy\u00fckler. Kitaplar \u00f6\u011fretir ama kitaplardan \u00e7ok \u00f6\u011fretir b\u00fcy\u00fckler. Bu y\u00fczden kendimize bir b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck yapal\u0131m da b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin k\u0131ymetini bilip b\u00fcy\u00fcyene kadar, b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u00f6\u011frenene kadar b\u00fcy\u00fcklerle daha \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irelim.<\/p>\n
DR. MEHMET D\u0130N\u00c7<\/strong><\/p>\n ACIBADEM OKULLARI PS\u0130KOLOJ\u0130K H\u0130ZMETLER DANI\u015eMANI<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ge\u00e7en as\u0131rda ortalama bir \u00e7ocuk, etraf\u0131nda devaml\u0131 ili\u015fki kurdu\u011fu minimum 25 yeti\u015fkinle b\u00fcy\u00fcyormu\u015f. Art\u0131k \u00f6yle de\u011fil. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn etraf\u0131m\u0131zda devaml\u0131 irtibat halinde oldu\u011fumuz b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-248","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/248","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=248"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/248\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":266,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/248\/revisions\/266"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=248"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=248"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=248"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}