{"id":275,"date":"2018-04-24T11:18:44","date_gmt":"2018-04-24T08:18:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/?p=275"},"modified":"2025-09-09T17:27:33","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T14:27:33","slug":"cocugumun-ozguvenini-nasil-guclendirebilirim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/cocugumun-ozguvenini-nasil-guclendirebilirim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011fumun \u00d6zg\u00fcvenini Nas\u0131l G\u00fc\u00e7lendirebilirim?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>\u201cBir \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fczelli\u011fi ve\u00a0 mutlulu\u011fu kalpleri b\u00fcy\u00fclt\u00fcr\u201d Emerson. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zg\u00fcven bireyin kendisi sevmesi ve kendisine y\u00f6nelik iyi duygularla i\u00e7inde bir \u015feyleri yapabilme g\u00fcc\u00fc ve inanc\u0131n\u0131 hissetmesidir. \u00d6zg\u00fcven duygusu, bireylerin ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131n her an\u0131nda en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sorumluluktan en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumluluklar\u0131 yerine getirmeye k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sorunlardan b\u00fcy\u00fck ya\u015fam sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmeye kadar ya\u015fam\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00f6nemlerinde ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu yapabilme g\u00fcc\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zg\u00fcven duygusunu insanlar ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131n ilk y\u0131llar\u0131ndan itibaren kendi \u00f6zlerinden ve\u00a0 bulunduklar\u0131 yeti\u015fme ve b\u00fcy\u00fcme ortam\u0131ndan ald\u0131klar\u0131 mesajlarla kendileri i\u00e7lerinde yap\u0131land\u0131r\u0131rlar. Bu yap\u0131land\u0131rma s\u00fcreci bir bitkinin yeti\u015ftirilmesine benzetilebilir. \u00c7ift\u00e7i bir meyve a\u011fac\u0131 yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in topra\u011f\u0131 haz\u0131rlar a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131 zararl\u0131 b\u00f6ceklerden korumak i\u00e7in ila\u00e7lar ve bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapar, suyunu verir ve a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcne\u015f almas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar ve a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp meyve vermesi i\u00e7in gerekli yeti\u015fme ortam\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur . \u00c7ift\u00e7inin bu eme\u011fi a\u011fac\u0131n tohum \u00e7ekirde\u011finin i\u00e7inde bulunan gizilg\u00fc\u00e7le birle\u015fir ve a\u011fa\u00e7 b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zg\u00fcven geli\u015fimi de bu duruma benzer.Anne baba ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun etraf\u0131ndaki yeti\u015fkinler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde olan geli\u015fmeye haz\u0131r potansiyeli, kaliteli bir \u00fcr\u00fcne d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek\u00a0 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan verimli bir birey olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in gerekli olan b\u00fcy\u00fcme ve yeti\u015fme ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlar ve ona geli\u015fmeye elveri\u015fli imkanlar\u0131 sunar.Bu imkanlar sonucu \u00f6z\u00fcnden ve \u00e7evresinden b\u00fcy\u00fcme ve geli\u015fme i\u00e7in gelen mesajlar\u0131 alan \u00e7ocukta \u00f6z\u00fcndeki bu yapabilme g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc olu\u015fturmaya ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zg\u00fcven duygusu bir anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa ya\u015fam\u0131 boyunca verece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck arma\u011fanlardan biridir. \u00d6zg\u00fcven geli\u015fimi do\u011fumla ba\u015flayarak ya\u015fam yolculu\u011fu boyunca ya\u015fam\u0131n \u00f6zellikle ilk y\u0131llar\u0131nda bireyin i\u00e7indeki g\u00fc\u00e7 kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131n temel yak\u0131t\u0131 \u00e7evreden gelen mesajlarla geli\u015fmeye \u00a0ba\u015flar. Ya\u015fanan her tecr\u00fcbe \u00e7ocu\u011fun etraf\u0131ndaki yeti\u015fkinlerle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen her etkile\u015fim bu kayna\u011f\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc etkiler.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u00d6zg\u00fcveni y\u00fcksek olan \u00e7ocuklar<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Kendilerini duygular\u0131n\u0131 rahatl\u0131kla ifade ederler.<\/li>\n<li>Kendini ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ifade edebilir gerekti\u011finde yard\u0131m isteyebilir.<\/li>\n<li>Sorumluluk almada isteklidir.Kendi sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 zaman\u0131nda yerine getirirler.<\/li>\n<li>Ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda olursa olsunlar kararlar\u0131n\u0131 kendileri vermek i\u00e7in emek verirler.<\/li>\n<li>\u00d6\u011frenmeye kar\u015f\u0131 merak ve istek doludurlar. Soru sorar , merak eder ve ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Zorluklarla ba\u015f edebilir ve ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re kendince sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 kendisi \u00e7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba harcar. M\u00fccadeleden korkmazlar.<\/li>\n<li>Ya\u015famda farkl\u0131l\u0131klara ilgi duyarlar<\/li>\n<li>Kolayl\u0131kla arkada\u015f edinirler.En az 2 yak\u0131n arkada\u015fa sahiptirler.<\/li>\n<li>Toplum \u00f6n\u00fcnde rahatl\u0131kla konu\u015furlar.Etraf\u0131ndaki insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcrler.<\/li>\n<li>Hata ve ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 sonucunda duygusal olarak derin yaralar almazlar.<\/li>\n<li>Toplum i\u00e7inde giri\u015fkendir ve rahatl\u0131kla kendini ifade eder.<\/li>\n<li>Ya\u015famalar\u0131ndaki co\u015fku,heyecan ,ve ne\u015fe davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na da yans\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki durumlar ve etkenler \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcven d\u00fczeyini olumsuz etkiler<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Anne baba \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinin zay\u0131f olmas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa yeterince zaman ay\u0131ramamas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa sevgisini ifade edememesi veya g\u00f6sterememesi<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun ihmal edilmesi veya anne babadan uzun s\u00fcreler uzak kalmas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fa aile i\u00e7inde kendini ifade etme f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131n verilmemesi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ciddiye al\u0131nmamas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n kendi \u00f6zg\u00fcveninin zay\u0131f olmas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n kendi ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015famas\u0131,<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n \u00f6fke kontrols\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kendini kontrol edememesi,<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n bask\u0131c\u0131 ve otoriter bir tutum sergilemesi<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i olmas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden memnun olmamas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n aralar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk e\u011fitimi konusunda anla\u015famamalar\u0131, farkl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve inan\u00e7lara sahip olmalar\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu devaml\u0131 ba\u015fka akranlar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa s\u0131k\u00e7a \u015fiddet uygulamas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fa sorumluluk vermemesi onu a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 koruyup kollamas\u0131<\/li>\n<li>Anne baban\u0131n kendi aralar\u0131ndaki olumsuz ili\u015fki problemleri<\/li>\n<li>Aile ge\u00e7imsizli\u011fi,<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>gibi durumlar \u00e7ocuklarda \u00f6zg\u00fcvenin yapabilme inanc\u0131n\u0131n zay\u0131flamas\u0131na neden olur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>\u00c7OCUKLARDA \u00d6ZG\u00dcVEN GEL\u0130\u015e\u0130M\u0130 \u0130\u00c7\u0130N ANNE BABALARA \u00d6NER\u0130LER<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Aile ortam\u0131n\u0131zda anne baba olarak aran\u0131zdaki sevgiyi geli\u015ftirin. Aile mutlulu\u011funuzun artmas\u0131 i\u00e7in gayret edin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za \u00f6zel zaman ay\u0131rarak, birlikte oldu\u011funuz anlarda onlara \u00f6nemli olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissettirin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za onlar\u0131 sevdi\u011finizi ifade edin, onlarla aran\u0131zda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck sevgi zamanlar\u0131 olu\u015fturun.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun hi\u00e7 ummad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir anda ona arkas\u0131nda s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131l\u0131n ve ona iyi ki benim yavrumsun deyin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla birlikte ge\u00e7irdi\u011finiz zamanlarda bir an durun ve onu \u00e7ok sevdi\u011finizi onun sizin i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu dile getirin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla s\u0131k\u00e7a sohbet edin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki her \u015fey konusunda onunla sohbet edin.<\/li>\n<li>Ailenizde \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kendisini ifade etme olana\u011f\u0131 sunun. Farkl\u0131 konularda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun fikirlerini al\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamay\u0131n. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcn.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu do\u011fru c\u00fcmlelerle cesaretlendirin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve merhametli olun.Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatalarda \u00e7ocuk olduklar\u0131n\u0131 unutmay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za onlar\u0131n da ailenin bir \u00fcyesi olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissettirin.Ailenizle ilgili kararlarda fikrini al\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc y\u00f6nlerini takdir ederken ,zay\u0131f yanlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezlikten gelmeyin, d\u00fcr\u00fcst olun, ama onlar\u0131 <u>ac\u0131mas\u0131zca ele\u015ftirmeyin<\/u>.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 size sorduklar\u0131n\u0131 dinleyin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenebilece\u011fi sorumluluklar Kendisine g\u00fcvenilip sorumluluk verilen \u00e7ocuklar kendilerini yararl\u0131 ve \u00f6nemli hissederler.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 yeteneklerini ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmas\u0131nda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olun.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131zdan yapamayacaklar\u0131 \u015feyleri beklemeyin , onlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 zor hedefler koymay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hatalarda ve kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klarda onlar\u0131 inciten benliklerine zarar veren onlar\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan kelimeler kesinlikle kullanmay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza her g\u00fcn mutlaka kitap okuyun ve okuduklar\u0131n\u0131z hakk\u0131nda birlikte sohbet edin.<\/li>\n<li>A\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki s\u00f6zleri yeri geldik\u00e7e \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kullan\u0131n.\n<p>\u201cSeninle gurur duyuyorum. \u201c \u201cHerkes hata yapabilir. \u201c<br \/>\n\u201cYard\u0131mlar\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim.\u201d\u00a0 \u201cBen senin bunu yapabilece\u011fine inan\u0131yorum.\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cSeni seviyorum.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cNe kadar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelisin.\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cSana g\u00fcveniyorum.\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u201cSeninle vakit ge\u00e7irmek \u00e7ok ho\u015fuma gidiyor.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>KUDRET EREN YAVUZ<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>ACIBADEM OKULLARI OKUL \u00d6NCES\u0130 E\u011e\u0130T\u0130M DANI\u015eMANI<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>www.kudreterenyavuz.com<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBir \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fczelli\u011fi ve\u00a0 mutlulu\u011fu kalpleri b\u00fcy\u00fclt\u00fcr\u201d Emerson. \u00d6zg\u00fcven bireyin kendisi sevmesi ve kendisine y\u00f6nelik iyi duygularla i\u00e7inde bir \u015feyleri yapabilme g\u00fcc\u00fc ve inanc\u0131n\u0131 hissetmesidir.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":277,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=275"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":278,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275\/revisions\/278"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/277"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.acibadem.k12.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}